Get out the driver's seat.
In continuing to try to control situations that you’ve asked God for help with, you limit Him being God over the situation. It’s not relinquishing full and total power to him. You’re asking him for help, but your actions are saying you don’t trust him enough to change and steer the situation forward. Faith is letting go of you will and trusting God with His. If she should tell you to put your hand on it, let Him lead you, but don’t try to lead Him. As long as you stay in the driver’s seat the car may go a little distance, but it’ll stall or break down eventually if that’s not the seat your meant to be in. Let God be God. Listen to the still small voice that says, “Baby, I got it! I know what’s best for you!”